4 Ways to Improve Communication with a Caregiver

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Depending on your care needs, a caregiver can be an almost constant presence in your home. Even when they aren’t with you physically, they might call, email, or text you to check in. Because of this, you’ll want to have great communication with your caregiver and connect with them. Below are some ways that you can improve communication and strengthen your bond with your caregiver.

4 Ways to Improve Communication with a Caregiver

Set Expectations Up Front

It’s important to establish any expectations you have early on. For example, if you want them to check in with you by phone throughout the day or would prefer another type of communication, you need to tell them at the beginning of your relationship.

Set some time aside to sit down with your new caregiver and have a discussion about all your expectations. They may suggest ways to streamline processes that will make your life easier.

Know that Respect is a Two-Way Street

No one wants to work or be with someone who isn’t respecting them. Make sure that you’re giving your caregiver the respect they deserve, and vice versa. Some ways to ensure you’re respecting them is to:

  • Show appreciation
  • Be considerate with their feelings
  • Apologize when necessary
  • Actively listen
  • Be polite

You can also use this list when making sure they are also giving you the right amount of respect.

Be Transparent with Feelings and Needs

The best quality of care happens when adults and their caregivers are transparent with any feelings, questions, or concerns. Don’t be afraid to tell your caregiver when you aren’t in a good mood for a specific reason, or wish something could be altered care-wise to help you further.

Having this transparency will only allow your caregiver to be more in tune with your needs and will build significant trust between you both.

Find Common Ground

Finding things in common through ice breakers and fun, lighthearted conversations is a great way to improve communication and connect with your caregiver. Some topics you can talk about include:

  • Favorite movies or television shows
  • Hobbies
  • Favorite foods and restaurants
  • Places where you have both traveled
  • Books
  • Sports

The great part about these is that they can even extend to you and your caregiver doing activities together, like cooking a meal or watching a great show.

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